stealthboy:

stealthboy:

stealthboy:

Can “advice” forums please stop telling trans boys that they need to be more rude and aggressive in order to pass..

Like I literally saw people saying that you should interrupt others in conversation and bump into them when walking because that’s “how guys are” and it made me so mad

That’s not being a man that’s being an asshole

look guys I know how painful misgendering is and how horrible it feels struggling to pass but please don’t change who you are because of it, and certainly don’t throw away kindness and empathy for the sake of being “Manly”

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